Periodically, I take a moment and look back over some of my past relationships. There was alot of abuse and misuse in many of them. Sadly, I see patterns that were repeated because of MY words and actions. By remaining in those relationships, I was actually saying, “Let me show you how to mistreat me!”. Like too many others, I didn’t like or love myself enough to want to be alone with me. Because I didn’t like myself, I didn’t demand that anyone else love me. Let’s be real. People don’t want to be around someone who doesn’t even want to be around themself. If you desire to attract healthy relationships, you must have a healthy relationship with YOURSELF. The only thing that comes OUT of you is what’s IN you. Please make sure it’s healthy and THEN share it. I am a Queen and I demand to be treated as such. I am the reflection of God and I will not accept relationships that treat me as anything less. What about you? What standard have you set for your relationships?